This is a script to find all constraints and check if they are enabled or disabled.
select
[Table] = o2.name,
[Constraint] = o.name,
[Enabled] = case when ((C.Status & 0x4000)) = 0 then 1 else 0 end
from sys.sysconstraints C
inner join sys.sysobjects o on o.id = c.constid -- and o.xtype='F'
inner join sys.sysobjects o2 on o2.id = o.parent_obj