Life gets better as you replace transactions with relationships. – from Excellent Advice for Living
This is incredible advice. I think that much of the complaints about the US from the rest of the world is how transactional we are. Whether this is with stuff we buy or neighbors or how we eat dinner or how we treat sports, we’ve often become transactional. What’s the best, fastest, easiest, most convenient, etc. We often want a quid pro quo for things we do.
When you spend more time with others, when you value the experience and what you get from it, life is better.
It can be harder, slower, etc., but I think it’s better.
I’ve been posting New Words on Fridays from a book I was reading, however, a friend thought they were a little depressing. They should be as they are obscure sorrows. I like them because they make me think.
To counter-balance those, I’m adding in thoughts on advice, mostly from Kevin Kelley’s book. You can read all these posts under the advice tag.