Awesome thanks for the help!

Your absolutely right.... my mistake. Instances.

I show 3 databases available to connect to:

(Local) - This database had the password stored so I was able to get on it and change it as I needed.

AFSSERVER -...

I found the instructions for changing the sa password, and it worked for the local database instance, but I am not able to get onto any of the other database...

Installing on a new machine isn't really an option because I only have 2 other servers. They are both running other sql databases for SBS, and backupexec and for Retalix...