I cannot speak for all women in IT as I am the only one I have met in person.  In my experience as the only female developer at a systems...

>>how do i save the package as a file on the server?

1. Open Package

2. Package -> Save As

Look at the options available in the drop downs

Is it possible that one of the data conections on your server does not exist on your remote machine?  For example, your server may have a DSN to some computer...

I have found that easiest way to create complicated DTS packages is to use the built in Wizard.

1.  Right click the database you would like to import the CSV files...