Hello,
In my opinion this war isn't about Developers against DBAs, it's about People against People.
There is a simple solution in this case: Be Professional, no matter what's your job role.
There is a famous phrase that I like very much and can be used in this case: "All we have to decide is what to do with the time that is given to us".
Follow my 3D rules: Direction, Discipline and Determination.
and make your choice:
a) No matter what you do (Benny Benassi)
b) Just Do it (Nike)
c) Think Different (Albert Einstein)
Best,
Alex Rosa
MCTS SQL Server 2005
MCDBA SQL Server 2000
Brazil
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Alex Rosa
http://www.keep-learning.com/blog