you don't have to have a local
smtp server; anyones mail server will do, including google, comcast or whoever you have an email account with.;
I've set up google gmail for db_mail and sql server as a proof of concept lots of times: the only tricky part was the alternate port where you might expect port 25 or 825, instead of 587 that google uses.:
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