the questions too vague for a solid answer; we have to see teh server side code, which is connecting/doing SQL stuff/disconnecting to be able to help at all.
any specific, exact error messages would be the most relevant, of course.
also, if there are any triggers on the tables that are being manipulated, that's probably important as well.
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