just a comment on the bit about feeling like your baby sitting, leading people to the answers.

i'm the sort of person that does like to do my own homework and find the answers for myself. rather than getting the answer straight awya. i feel that being able to find an answer to a problem by myself is just as big a part of being a good developer as the actual answer itself.

so i do agree that it is frustrating when someone just wants the answer on a plate.