Tried all that and still the same thing!

How does the messaging work?

When the intial message is sent, is it sent to the initiator queue or the target queue?

If it is the target, must the the acknowledgement (that the target sends to the initiator) be received/accepted by the initiator, before the message will hit the actual queue?

That message is not making it back to the initiator and then the initiator re-sends, so I am thinking that is where my issue is...