I am a working mother.  In another word, I have two jobs.  I am a SQL Server developer working in a company 10 hours a day (not including 1.5 hours driving time.)  Of course there are all kind of stress dealing with deadline, company politics, co-workers conflict..... Before and after work, I am a maid (mother), cooking, cleaning, doing dishes.....at home.  Over weekend, I have to do grocery shopping, cleaning, working the lawn, laundry, plus being my kid's driver.  Talk about stress, I don't even know how to spell it because it already becomes part of my life.