ok, thanks for the tips on posting.
Here's some code that I hope will help with my problem.
Also, I'm not understanding your comment on multiple inserts -- I want all child records to have the same parent key.
CREATE TABLE [dbo].[tb1_parent](
[tb1_parent_id] [int] IDENTITY(1001,1) NOT NULL,
[tb1_parent_bus_key] nvarchar(10))
CREATE TABLE [dbo].[tb2_child](
[tb2_child_id] [int] IDENTITY(2001,1) NOT NULL,
[tb2_parent_id] [int],
[tb2_child_bus_key] nvarchar(10))
BEGIN TRANSACTION
insert into tb1_parent (tb1_parent_bus_key) values ('A0001')
insert into tb2_child (tb2_child_bus_key) values ('A0001')
COMMIT
select * from tb1_parent
select * from tb2_child
-- note the null parent_id in the child record
create TRIGGER [dbo].[trg_tb1_parent_Insert]
ON [dbo].[tb2_child]
AFTER INSERT
AS
BEGIN
SET NOCOUNT ON;
UPDATE tb2_child
SET tb2_parent_id =
(select tb1_parent_id from tb1_parent
where tb1_parent.tb1_parent_bus_key = tb2_child.tb2_child_bus_key)
FROM tb2_child
INNER JOIN Inserted ON Inserted.tb2_child_id = tb2_child.tb2_child_id
END
BEGIN TRANSACTION
insert into tb1_parent (tb1_parent_bus_key) values ('A0002')
insert into tb2_child (tb2_child_bus_key) values ('A0002')
COMMIT
select * from tb1_parent
select * from tb2_child
-- this is the result that I want, I just thought I might avoid the select statement
BEGIN TRANSACTION
insert into tb1_parent (tb1_parent_bus_key) values ('A0003')
insert into tb2_child (tb2_child_bus_key) values ('A0003')
insert into tb2_child (tb2_child_bus_key) values ('A0003')
COMMIT
select * from tb1_parent
select * from tb2_child
-- this is also the result on want, on multiple inserts to the child record