I am reminded of something my father said to me when I was a little boy. He said "Son, when you become an adult, YOU are responsible for your own lot in life, not someone else." As result, I have only depended on one person to get me what I want and need out of life, ME. It's ultimately up to me. Survive. Adapt. Overcome. No guilt. That's the main problem with our "entitlement" society today. People want stuff just given to them because they feel they are entitled to it. No one wants to pay their dues in either a career or life anymore, they want it ALL now. 😀