you can't without breaking referential integrity.
Otherwise you'd be dropping the foreign key constraint, or disabling the foreign key constraint so it would be invalid after you deleted the parent record.
maybe they were trying to get you to say you'd have to set the child FK to NULL before you delete the parent?
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