Lol. Being a colleague of Dave's and not overly concerned that I am 'too many' of these people I do see where he's coming from.

In terms of disgruntled employee I think more a caring person that merely forewarns others of what one might expect.

Better fore-armed with a than thinking "Better keep this stuff to myself - perhaps these are normal people" and get that feeling ...

That said, I hope you enjoy your role as a project manager though the "can't change what you can't control" exists in the land of science and not really this thing we call "people"