i can think of only a couple offthe top of my head:
TCP/IP / remote connections are not enabled by default.
no Dedicated Admin Connection is available by default.
depending on the version of installed, you might not have SSMS.
it's really easy to not add yourself as an administrator during instalation + leave sa account disabled, so you don't have access after installation.
hopefully others will chime in as well.
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