well in general, "particular column does not a character" would mean a NOT LIKE '%X%' pr PATINDEX =0, right?, so that would requre a table scan of all rows, so i'm no suprised it has a big impact; every value has to be evaluated.
that would not be Sargable, so it cannot use an index.
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