There is no good way of doing this in SSIS - I'm with Jeff on this one.
If you want to put an SSIS 'wrapper' round it, something like this would work:
1) Exec SQL: Truncate Staging table
2) Dataflow: Insert to Staging table
3) Exec SQL: UPSERT logic to move from Staging to main data table
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