If you need someone with more experience to actually set this up for you, consdier grabbing a consultant or a DBA you know and trust. Believe me, I know anything new can be scary, and it's easier to ignore than to try something new.
Like i mentioned in my post quoted here, I have this running on my servers, with a rollover 24-7; I also have a DML trace, capturing every command executed as well; the procedure sp_procoption (linky to Books Online)
is what you use to set a procedure to be executed every time the server restarts.
You need to do that, because except for the C2 Audit and the default DDL trace, all traces stop when the server restarts.
server side traces have minimal impact, unlike a profiler session.
If you really need it, myself or any of the frequent posters here could be hired as a consultant to get you set up ; or you could do a little bit of investigation and get yourself up to speed.
here's a link to a Login trace I like to use for an example; you would need to make the procedure a startup procedure so it restarts when the server restarts. it also creates a view, so i can select from the trace anytime i want.sp_AddMyLogonTrace.txt
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