As I browse forums, I generally become a taker because my vast ignorance is exposed by the quality of some of the discussions that sparkle over my head. But then, like many, it also has something to do with working at home with a three-year-old, since she doesn't quite understand "work time" as a concept. Being a quality giver takes a lot of time, knowledge and, effort. Many kudos to those who fall into the zone of giving.