It's an interesting question to ask of people. I think that we are all givers and takers, but at different points in our careers. I know many people that don't answer questions or volunteer for years, and then they'll be inspired to do something at some point. There may be some that never give back, but I would guess they give in other parts of their lives. I would see very few people as only givers or takers in all parts of their lives.

You have to find a balance, and make that effort when it's appropriate for you. One thing I will say is that volunteering or giving of yourself isn't something you have to do constantly, or every year. Try it once. Make an effort in 2010 or 2011 to give something back to the community, even something as simple as answering a question, or manning the door at a user group meeting or SQL Saturday.