Hi Avi
To get the elements out of your XML you can use this:
DECLARE @xml XML
SELECT @xml = N'<Employee>
<EMPID>1</EMPID>
<EMPNAME>AAA</EMPNAME>
<EMPSALARY>2000.00</EMPSALARY>
<DEPTID>1</DEPTID>
</Employee>'
SELECT
T.C.value('(EMPID)[1]', 'int')
,T.C.value('(EMPNAME)[1]', 'nvarchar(20)')
,T.C.value('(EMPSALARY)[1]', 'decimal(15,5)')
,T.C.value('(DEPTID)[1]', 'int')
FROM @xml.nodes('Employee') T(C)
If you have to apply this to your table, have a look for CROSS APPLY with XML.
Greets
Flo