I believe that you can ask the things on that wish list and you might get some of them if your future employer is desperate enough and cannot find anybody else. If you look at some job offers, there are unrealistic as well. So why not being unrealistic yourself. It might be possible that in France, Austria, Germany and Netherlands (all those socialist countries) this is possible but see where they are with their economy.;-)

Flexible working hours, corporate culture, learning opportunities and last but not least the salary are the most important for me.