Thanks Grant and Steve.

No, I don't like arguing online either. It's unfortunate that what I intended to be a very simple question turned into this. Maybe I should've initially asked about "work" rather than "ideas", as that seemed to really throw Gail off.

Nobody likes to be misunderstood, especially when that's due to misrepresentation or inaccuracy. If I saw things here that were off-target, or incorrect interpretations of what I was asking, I tried to drive that toward more accuracy by being precise. Unfortunately, some people interpret that as an attack. (And then I get imperfect at being tactful, perhaps.)

Stuff like Steve's response regarding the "proving piece" is really all I expected... 1- or 2-sentence practical stuff like:

- "You could drop a copy with a lawyer" but that's expensive.

- "or email to a gmail/hotmail/etc. address that would establish some timestamp"

- etc.....anything I might not have thought of.

It seems the above, plus my items from the 12.13 post, are a pretty good list.

Thank you for spending time on this.