Below is the output from the errorlog. I copy this to a txt file and search for loginname, spid, hostname and so forth to get the type of information you are looking for.

process id=process8dfd38 taskpriority=0 logused=364 waitresource=KEY: 13:72057594070499328 (fe0993f4251a) waittime=828 ownerId=1052394084 transactionname=user_transaction lasttranstarted=2013-02-28T21:51:51.983 XDES=0x4ca947d8 lockMode=X schedulerid=3 kpid=15148 status=suspended spid=82 sbid=0 ecid=0 priority=0 transcount=2 lastbatchstarted=2013-02-28T21:53:44.787 lastbatchcompleted=2013-02-28T21:51:51.983 hostpid=1844 loginname=BENEFITCOMPANY\vmadmin isolationlevel=read committed (2) xactid=1052394084 currentdb=13 lockTimeout=4294967295 clientoption1=671088672 clientoption2=128056

In a separate message you will find the SQL, which is pretty easy to pick out.