As frustrating as such scenarios can be on a personal level it is important to remember that we are professionals and that we should conduct ourselves in a professional manner no matter what the situation is. Given whatever situation we should never take it personally and always give the best, most honest advice we can give based on the actual circumstances. With that being said I also know there are lots of politics played especially during tough times, so it is also important to point out all the reasons why an organization is in any given situation and how things could have been different, but always from the perspective of looking forward to find ways not to repeat the same mistakes again.