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The Great Uproar and some advice

By Steve Jones, 2005/10/20

My editorial this past week had to do with a great uproar on the interviewing piece that ran Monday. I felt I should apologize a little in not editing as much as I think now I should have for the article. But I didn't want to censor the style or thoughts of someone else. I am certainly not the most knowledgeable person on interviewing, but I've had my share of them and I think I have learned a few things.

First on the cursing thing. I curse, not all the time and certainly not uncontrollably, but in the heat of crisis or emotion, I have been known to drop four letter bombs here and there. But in an interview I think you should completely avoid it. I have a couple of good reasons here and it certainly doesn't mean that you have to maintain a G rated mouth if  you get the job.

One reason is somewhat job specific. If you are interviewing for any sort of client facing job, internal or external clients, you want to present a non-offensive and professional image, which would be no profanity. Even if the client curses, you should avoid it. If I were interviewing you and you cursed, it would seriously hurt your chances.

Another reason is that even if the person interviewing you cursed, that doesn't mean they want you to. I have been know to "bait" people in an interview, just to see what they will do or how they will react. That might be happening to you.

Second, on the religious aspects. Everyone has the right to their faith and their beliefs. That means everyone, meaning, don't push yours on them. I'm an atheist, but I don't bother anyone with my beliefs, or lack thereof in this case :). I'm not offended by someone saying "God Bless You", "Praise Allah", etc., but it does bother me and makes me look at them a little funny. Whenever I receive an email with a signature referencing God or someone makes a statement it colors my view of them, especially if I don't know them that well. Religion is a very personal thing and you should keep it close to you. Not in the business world. And especially not in an interview.

The exception here is contextual. I had a friend go interview at the Catholic Hostpital for a position. A reference to God there would not be inappropriate. In fact it might help, but don't say it if you don't mean it (more on that later). The point is that religion should be kept in the appropriate settings.

I think a personality fit is critical to a good hire and so I urge you to be forthcoming and honest and present yourself in a manner consistent with how you will behave if you get the job. I had another friend interview at Pat Robertson's Christian Broadcasting Network. I laughed when he told me because he is one of the most foul mouthed, shortest tempered people I knew and I couldn't belive he thought he could fit in. But he needed a job and this was a good career progression for him. He even got the "pastoral reference" that he needed despite the fact that his wife usually attended church with their children without him. He interviewed and was offered the job, but turned it down because he'd found another job in the meantime. That was just as well because I firmly believe he would not have lasted more than a few months there.

The best advice I can give you is to be honest so that you can ensure that both you and the employer make a good decision.



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