Found out I could not do a rule so i need a constraint on a varchar(5) field that can contain null or up to 5 numbers including leading zeroes. What I tried is
ALTER TABLE dbo.person_test2 ADD CONSTRAINT CK_ext
check (Pext like '[0-9][0-9][0-9][0-9][0-9]')
problem is it forces null and has to be 5 characters